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Disclaimer:  Please note these articles are for information purposes only and are not a substitute for professional medical care by a qualified doctor or other health care professional.  Always check with your doctor if you have any concerns about your condition or treatment.  Thank you.

You have been so damaged by unhealthy love, that you do not know how to respond to healthy love.

Relationships: You have been so damaged by unhealthy love,

that you do not know how to respond to healthy love -

by Novena-Chanel Davies

"You have become so damaged, that when someone wants to give you, what you deserve, you have no idea how to respond." - Unknown

 

If reading this hits close to home, please know that you deserve to be loved.

 

You deserve to be respected and protected (emotionally, psychologically, physically, and financially). You deserve to wake up with a smile, looking forward to a new day, a new start - a new day to experience more love. You deserve to have your forehead kissed slowly, your hand held tightly, and your brow swept lightly. You deserve to share your hopes, dreams, fears, and woes, with someone who makes it their business to share, repair, and experience them with you.

 

You deserve to be loved.

 

Yes, with the right one, you are allowed to make mistakes, and so are they; knowing that both of you will teach each other better ways to love and understand yourselves, without harming or testing the other.

 

You deserve to be loved.

 

You no longer need to fear being loved, or loving others. Yes, you might lose it, we all have at some point in our lives, and look, here we are today, still standing, even if it is in pain. Remember, wounds can be healed, but we can never re-live our lives and experience their love, once it's gone.

 

We have all made mistakes, got blinded by emotions, sidetracked by passion, weighed down by our own baggage, and overcome with fear, but it's better to experience love and learn from it, than to never understand what it is.  

 

Use a healthy relationship that is based upon interdependence (not co-dependency), respect, loyalty, trust, joy, peace, and mutual goals, to learn what you do and do not want in relationships; teaching you new boundaries and clearer expectations... whether it does or does not work out.

 

Besides, if you don't take the risk, you'll never ever get the pay off. I recently heard a joke, it went along the lines of...

 

"A man stood in a temple praying everyday for 365 days, praying to win the lottery. On the 365th day he stamped in anger and shouted out "Why won't you let me win?... I'm going to stop coming here". Then, a voice sighed in relief and said, "Finally, and on your way out, can you please, please, finally, buy a damn lottery ticket?!!!"  

 

You see, you have to be in it, to 'win' it. Yearning for, wishing for, and hoping for, is not enough. You have to buy the actual ticket.

 

Every relationship is a lesson; don't place yourself into unhealthy lessons, but equally, do not refuse to allow yourself to take the class and learn the lesson - learning is growing.

 

You are loved. You are special. You are worthy. You can handle it.

 

Love to you from Novena-Chanel, The Equilibrium Coach™ - www.novena-chanel.com.  

 

 

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By Novena-Chanel Davies, The Equilibrium Coach™ - 20th August 2015 - www.novena-chanel.com

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Novena-Chanel is a London-based entrepreneur, working as a writer (contributing to magazines and websites), a registered integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist, Life Coach, Wellbeing Consultant, Workshop Facilitator, Nutritional advisor, Reiki Practitioner, and Presenter. She is also the Founder and Director of The Youth Caterpillar Project: a youth social enterprise that provides Counselling, Mentoring, Family Mediation (teen-to-parent) and workshops to young people and their families. Find out more by visiting her at www.novena-chanel.com

You deserve to be loved